I was reading a line in one of the million updates that you end up reading all over the place. This one was good it said " an asshole is an asshole howsoever it may be lined, place some flowers in it and it never becomes vase and never will". The line is not the same but it captures the meaning. But liked it.
The essence is everywhere to be seen. especially the bunch of people who are nice. A lot of people across the board are nice but that does not mean they are worth it in any way. recently some one asked me how do you handle people who wither away time even when there is none of it really available and how do you get them to what they are supposed to do or handle them without loosing cool. Funnily the real answer is just one and that is do not try to be nice to this bunch. Coz howsoever you try to handle them they never will change. You try to be nice they shall go around town telling everyone ' Hey look at me, isn't it a nice vase' and then there would be that crowd, a very large crowd at that, who would say ' oh yeah it is nice, brilliant work of art, the bountiful nature of it brings out the charm of the flowers, good job' Very rarely does someone come out of the bushes and say hey, that looks like an asshole and it is awfully rubbish, what you are trying to do..
But it is important to be straight. Goodness, all around we see people, who smile at you, get cheerful with you around but in real they are gnawing inside trying to get the terror of having met you not to cross their visage. Get to the point, get the job done, or fuck off. That's real, that's satisfying, that does not leave a gap for further conversations, or gossip. It is over then and there,mebbe hurting but I promise it is not going to wind up bad coz someone knows the truth and that someone may work on it hard.
It's important to tell people where they stand. It is important to tell people what they are good at and what they are not. The whole idea of being nice to everyone has messed up a lot of things around. The need to be 'PC - Politically Correct'. I understand that blind man is not supposed to be called a blind fuck. But you cannot the deny the fact that he or she is blind and you need not try to be nice just because they are coz they know it and they know how to handle it too as they have done so until now. I have seen people who deserve praise not getting any of it because the other side is so messed up. Then there is the cynicism of praise which permeates itself because fake praise is all over the place because nicety is a way getting through the day without professional and personal hassles. Hell if the kid is dumb tell the kid, coz then the kid is gonna search for that thing which makes him or her special. Else the kid is dumb but he / she is standing at the very same place he/ she began with no scope of wonderment, seek or for that matter anything. Somewhere in the subconscious even the kid knows but it does not purport out as you stopped it by saying 'its okay, you are good, you will be fine and things will turn around' It fuckin never does...
So please call an asshole an asshole.. stop saying VASE...
You are helping the whole world, the smart and the good ones included and you are keeping a massive space for very less cynicism inside of real praise.
The essence is everywhere to be seen. especially the bunch of people who are nice. A lot of people across the board are nice but that does not mean they are worth it in any way. recently some one asked me how do you handle people who wither away time even when there is none of it really available and how do you get them to what they are supposed to do or handle them without loosing cool. Funnily the real answer is just one and that is do not try to be nice to this bunch. Coz howsoever you try to handle them they never will change. You try to be nice they shall go around town telling everyone ' Hey look at me, isn't it a nice vase' and then there would be that crowd, a very large crowd at that, who would say ' oh yeah it is nice, brilliant work of art, the bountiful nature of it brings out the charm of the flowers, good job' Very rarely does someone come out of the bushes and say hey, that looks like an asshole and it is awfully rubbish, what you are trying to do..
But it is important to be straight. Goodness, all around we see people, who smile at you, get cheerful with you around but in real they are gnawing inside trying to get the terror of having met you not to cross their visage. Get to the point, get the job done, or fuck off. That's real, that's satisfying, that does not leave a gap for further conversations, or gossip. It is over then and there,mebbe hurting but I promise it is not going to wind up bad coz someone knows the truth and that someone may work on it hard.
It's important to tell people where they stand. It is important to tell people what they are good at and what they are not. The whole idea of being nice to everyone has messed up a lot of things around. The need to be 'PC - Politically Correct'. I understand that blind man is not supposed to be called a blind fuck. But you cannot the deny the fact that he or she is blind and you need not try to be nice just because they are coz they know it and they know how to handle it too as they have done so until now. I have seen people who deserve praise not getting any of it because the other side is so messed up. Then there is the cynicism of praise which permeates itself because fake praise is all over the place because nicety is a way getting through the day without professional and personal hassles. Hell if the kid is dumb tell the kid, coz then the kid is gonna search for that thing which makes him or her special. Else the kid is dumb but he / she is standing at the very same place he/ she began with no scope of wonderment, seek or for that matter anything. Somewhere in the subconscious even the kid knows but it does not purport out as you stopped it by saying 'its okay, you are good, you will be fine and things will turn around' It fuckin never does...
So please call an asshole an asshole.. stop saying VASE...
You are helping the whole world, the smart and the good ones included and you are keeping a massive space for very less cynicism inside of real praise.
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